TITBITS On Narcissism & Hypocrisy.

"I will Look much better than George cloony"(Charlie Chaplin in reality) and if i sing, my neighbors will ask  as "Is that Mohammed Rafi on speaker"(Donkey's Bray in reality).. and you know "you can't spot a single difference between my rock dance steps and MJ's mesmerizing moves"(seizure in reality) apart from that i can swim in Tsunami and i can drive my ambassador with 350Km/h and I blah blah blah "
- Words from an Narcissist.

"I will Look much better than George cloony"(Charlie Chaplin in reality) and if i sing, my neighbors will ask  as "Is that Mohammed Rafi on speaker"(Donkey's Bray in reality).. and you know "you can't spot a single difference between my rock dance steps and MJ's mesmerizing moves"(seizure in reality) apart from that i can swim in Tsunami and i can drive my ambassador with 350Km/h and I blah blah blah "-- But i hate self glorification and i hate narcissism to the core. 
- Words from an Hypocrite.

Narcissist are quite familiar in blogosphere, best to way to find a narcissist ? do you know that ? then stop reading and switch on your web cam and show your face, if you don't have a web cam better find a mirror and show your face.
Everyone has a narcissist and an hypocrite in them but only the quantity and quality of hypocrisy, narcissism differs. deny or embrace it ?.

Narcissism is certainly not a sin to fear about, without loving ourselves we can't love others but hypocrisy ??
Hypocrisy, everyone in this world is an hypocrite, i strongly believe that. at some part of time at some place we would have behaved like an hypocrite.

People advices "Be yourself" if you follow that are you really behaving yourself ? or you are following his words ?
Gandhi is known for his patience and non violence movement and he is certainly FATHER OF OUR NATION, do you Know that whether Gandhi behaved like a father for his son ?

Double standard lives, everyone plays it. they speaks one with us and replaces the word with some other things when the person at other end changes.
Similarly the officials getting transferred after an election,
Change is only thing which never changes.

What about a narcissist ?
It is not a sin to love ourselves, but certainly a mistake when we love ourselves more than a level. so we will have a superiority feel, like the sick Nazi's and few sick bloggers in this blogosphere.
if you go and check about me page of them, you can find some phrases which even Napoleon or Alexander will not use.

I don't have rights to call them as Absurd idiots, perhaps in my view they may sound like an idiot, to their world they are right.
famously noted as "Everyman feels that he is right in his own view".

But problem arises, when you are being an hypocrite and blames an hypocrite and when you are being an narcissist but you will blame narcissism, a shameful act indeed.
Recently i visited a 3 letter site, a site dedicated for narcissist sicko's, there a sicko blamed a group of people for narcissism, but certainly it is his own view and he has the right to express.But what i infer is that, his ABOUT ME page is 200% narcissistic than what he blamed :P

Showing our strength and showing our good virtues are not an exhibitionism, it is a gift for our hard work. perhaps a fortune.
Since we are deeply routed with blog, we must confess that we have a group of people who consider themselves as a "GREEK GODS/GODDESS FOR BLOG", they may or they can be.. who cares ? but who gave them rights to hurt an individual ?

Hypocrites advising me.. ah I cant tolerate that, he will have an elephant sized crap in his front head but still asks me to wipe my face..
Neighborhood is a birth place of narcissism, Aunty walaas.. "My son sent me a diamond necklace and it costs 15Lakhs", "My daughter got a seat in MIT","See my new saree 25,000Rs" bullshit them !

Dear people, why playing double standard ?(if you don't play just skip reading)
If you consider all these as an advice, i will be the FIRST IN THE HYPOCRITE list
i am not blaming or depreciating anyone, just sharing what i feel.
My elastic limit started to crumble, i cannot tolerate the craps from any hypocrite or narcissist !
Ok i dono how to end :P feeling light after cursing all :P :P cheers !
finally, i wish to repeat my own words "Everyone has every character in them(Includes narcissism and Hypocrisy) but only the (%) Quantity differs" try to be balanced....


 

   

27 comments:

  1. We all are made of the same ingredients. What matters is the wisdom of using the ingredients. :-) A rant but well written.

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  2. I think we humans have traits of being a hypocrite and narcissist in all of us, some have more some less.

    seems you have had your handfull with a few of these , hey dont worry it will be fine ..

    As my dad would say to me .. Suno sabki , karo apni :)

    all the best

    http://mannbikram.wordpress.com/2012/01/17/wordless-wednesday-31-mirror/

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  3. @Bikramjit LOL :P
    not like that bikram !
    i just vented my anger ! :P

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  4. Dude.. You are such a writer! I loved it :)

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  5. @GayathriHehe writer ? OMG ! thanks a ton and thanks again for visiting by and calling me s writer.. i cant sleep :P

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  6. nice post. but first thing first, you need to stop following that site which u mentioned :D. i seriously have no clue how ppl vote for posts which always has a racial undertone. personally i hate the sight of that blog especially when i see it on the first page.

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  7. @factsandnonsense Lol yes, i must :) but i feel we have to show some retaliation :P :P

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  8. A brilliant rant :P

    Next time also mention the name of that website, even though I know which one you are talking about! ;-):P

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  9. Enjoyed reading the analysis of narcissists and hypocrites!! What about snobs? :)

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  10. Once while going through a screenwriting journal I came across a fact that 'A villain is hero is his own story'..to make it digestible you can make a film on GABBAR SINGH of SHOLAY and see the way he turns out to be a hero, conqueror and winner in his own story whereas in SHOLAY he was a dreaded villain.
    The point is everyone would always love and forgive himself/herself no matter what happens.

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  11. i agree..all of us at some point and for some reason becomes one.. though i hate hypocrites,i should admit that..

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  12. @Akshay Kumar G hehe thannks again
    glad that you caught that SITE... if we mention it will be like sarcasm even now it is.. but why to spot them bro ? ppl will understand like you :)

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  13. @Giribala SNUB ?? hehe ! i have no opinion on them.... everyone has it in us !

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  14. @vinay Clever buddy :) you again linked with your films ? Gabbar singh
    hehe i accept it :)

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  15. @DeEpAK KaRtHiK (420)
    Hehe..what more can you expect from me? :D

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  16. Hmm.. nalla definition for Narcissist and hypocrite :D Nice post! And I like the background music :)

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  17. well, i think ur concluding line is what that matters most, ie. "Everyone has every character in them(Includes narcissism and Hypocrisy) but only the (%) Quantity differs" and one must try to have it balances in him/her........

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  18. @Bikramjit

    i agree to what Bikram said, we all are a mixture of all these traits...in different proportions...

    rahul

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  19. @IrfanuddinGlad that you grasped it.. Thanks a ton, keep visiting !

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  20. First let me ask you something, "What makes George Clooney look better than Charlie Chaplin?".

    Now going back to your analysis, Hypocrites drive everyone crazy, everybody hates them, nobody says I am a hypocrite or I like Hypocrite, so where do they come from? That is something to ponder over ;)

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  21. @Farila Well mam, i can explain :)

    If you imagine perhaps if you put Charlie Chaplin in Ocean's ELEVEN or PEACEMAKER movie, everyone will ROFL
    There is some physical beauty needed to act in certain kind of movies...

    Everyone are hypocrite,,, the fact is "If you or me hate an hypocrite" we are hating ourselves !
    That's the truth(i believe) :)
    Thanks a ton for your comments !

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  22. i dont know which blog u r talking about...but Deepak,y do u use such vast generalizations in your posts ?u paint everybody with d same brush. i say this bcause i have counseled MANY youngsters who feel they r no good,they dont have a single good quality & they dont deserve to live...this is not at all uncommon believe me...for ex u can go through my post http://jeeteraho.blogspot.com/2010/12/mouse-in-trap.html
    Inferiority complex is directly opposed to narcissism & it exists.

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  23. @indu.sahyogHalo mam, thanks for expressing your opinion, i accept your point.. but certainly i dont feel low of me... trust me i am not that kind :) i just expressed my contempt over a blog, which is drastically insulting INDIANS !

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